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Hi friend,

It's January 5th.

Five days into the "new year" and if you're being honest, you probably don't feel much different than you did on December 30th.

Maybe you had some energy on the 1st. Maybe you made a list. Set some goals. Told yourself this year would be different.

But now it's Sunday. You're back to regular life. Work starts tomorrow if it hasn't already. And that January 1st energy?

Already fading.

Here's what I've noticed: January always feels like this.

The Flatness

December is loud. There's music, lights, parties, people, plans. Everything is amplified. The energy is high, the expectations are everywhere, and there's this constant hum of activity.

Then January hits.

The decorations come down. The messages slow down. The noise drops out.

And what's left is just... you. Your routines. Your patterns. Your actual life, without the seasonal scaffolding wrapped around it.

Psychologists call this a contrast effect. December isn't actually happier - it's just louder. January isn't sadder - it's just quieter.

But we interpret that quietness as something being wrong. Like we missed the memo. Like something inside us didn't get the update that it's a new year now.

Five Days In

This is about the time when most people start to notice it.

The gym you joined on the 1st? Already feels like a chore.

The diet you started? You've already had a "cheat day."

The productivity system you set up? You haven't opened it since the 2nd.

And there's this creeping feeling: "Here we go again. Another year where I say I'll change and nothing actually changes."

Research shows there's something called the "fresh start effect" - calendar landmarks like New Year's create this psychological boost where we feel motivated to change.

The problem? That boost is temporary. And it's based on emotion, not structure.

You felt excited on January 1st. You made plans. You set goals. You promised yourself this year would be different.

But now it's the 5th. And life looks exactly like it did on December 30th. Because the calendar changed, but nothing else did.

What Nobody Tells You

Here's the thing nobody talks about:

You don't need to feel motivated in January to move forward.

You don't need to feel different just because the date changed.

You don't need January energy to make progress on what matters.

January functions more like a psychological audit than a fresh start. When the noise of December falls away, you get a clearer view of your actual patterns. Your actual habits. Your actual life.

That can feel disappointing. Especially if you were expecting relief just because the calendar turned.

But it's not a problem. It's just information.

The Observation

I'm not here to tell you what to do with this information.

I'm just pointing out that if January feels flat, or heavy, or like the motivation is already slipping - you're not broken.

You're not unmotivated.

You're not failing at your "new year."

You're just experiencing what January actually is: the contrast to December's noise, without the illusion that a date on a calendar changes who you are.

Most people try to force themselves to feel inspired right now. They set big goals, make grand promises, and by the 19th (what researchers call "Quitter's Day"), they've already given up.

Maybe the better question isn't "Why don't I feel motivated?" but "What actually needs to change, regardless of how I feel?"

Because feelings come and go. Habits persist.

Motivation fades. Systems endure.

January hype disappears by mid-month. But what you do consistently - even when you don't feel like it - compounds over time.

That's all I wanted to say.

If you're five days in and already feeling like the New Year magic wore off, that's because it did.

And maybe that's exactly when the real work begins.

Until Next Week
Lorenc - Founder of Success Skill