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Stop Blaming Everything Else
The brutal truth about control...
I’ve figured it out…
I’ve figured out how you can guarantee failure.
If you follow this simple strategy, you can fail easily and join the 92% of people who fail to achieve their dreams.
And the best part is…
None of that 92% think it’s their fault, and it won’t be yours either...
With good comes bad,
with right comes wrong,
With success comes struggle.
If you don’t take full responsibility for yourself when chasing your dreams, you’ll stay stuck and lost and will guarantee another failed thing...
It’s your choice, excuses or successes - you can't have both.
Don’t blame your struggles and obstacles on external factors.
It’ll leave you with no control.
It’s the reason most are allergic to success.
They will never live up to what they dreamed of doing…
The moment it gets difficult, they decide to blame everything but themselves…
“I can’t because I’m too old.”
“I can’t because I don’t have enough time.”
“I can’t because I’m [Insert any external excuse].”
Do you know what this does?
It shifts the blame from them to an external factor they can’t control, which is why they can’t succeed.
In their mind, it makes it okay.
But the REAL ones who want to succeed know that mentality isn’t going to help.
The ultra-successful are the complete opposite.
They take full responsibility for everything that happens to them.
Even if they knew they couldn’t control it.
In their mind, it gives them full control over everything they do.
You can argue with reality, or you can learn the rules and win the game.
David Goggins is the perfect example.
During the first 24 years of his life, he just let life happen to him, taking no responsibility for any of it.
He probably had dreams and goals but continuously made excuses, blaming any outside factor for his failure to achieve anything.
Until…
He decided to take responsibility.
Switching from feeling sorry for himself to noticing what he doesn’t like in his life and holding himself responsible.
This gave him the power and control to change his entire life and become the great David Goggins the entire world knows him as today.
All from taking responsibility…
So, my ask is that you, today, do the same…
The longer you wait, the harder it’ll be to fix,
So as you go through your day, notice things that you don’t like.
It could be
a behavior you don’t like,
A certain person,
As far as the weather.
Write them down in a list and ask yourself,
What can I change to avoid this next time?
This makes you realize a problem and makes you take responsibility for you to fix it straight away.
Implementing this into your daily life will make you realize how much you can control if you don’t blame everything else.
So, the best time to start is right now, today, or within the next 24 hours. You got this!
Take full responsibility, don’t argue with reality, learn the rules, and win the game!
Who knows you might just be the next David Goggins of your own world!...
Until Next Time!
Lorenc - Founder of Success Skill
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