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The most Successful Trait
(Let success come to you)
Learn to love the feeling of trying hard
In any area of life
You can give it your all.
The best thing you can do is
Stop worrying about results…
Focus on your inputs and the effort you put in,
Rather than worrying about the outcomes which is something you cannot control.
You’ll feel more Fulfilled,
Gain more,
And progress further by concentrating on what you CAN control…
If you focus on what you can control,
Your desired outcomes, successes, and achievements
Will just show up as a result.

The truth is,
If you’re so fixated on your outcomes,
Like wanting to bench 100kgs,
Earn your first 10k a month,
Or quit your job
Those are all outcomes
And they all have an ending…
So
Even if you do achieve those things
What do you do next?
That is why so many professional athletes hit the worst points of their lives once they’ve
Won the championships,
Become the best in the world
Of won the grand finals.
Because they were playing for the outcome,
Not for the love of playing and trying their best.
“The man who loves walking will always walk further than the man who loves the destination.”

If you focus on your version of walking and fall in love with trying your hardest,
Doing it for the joy
Rather
Than for the benefits.
Realize you can control the inputs that bring you closer to your goals,
And when you love trying your hardest and putting in the effort,
You won’t have to find success
Because it will find you…
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