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- You’re too nice...
You’re too nice...
You need to Selfishly Focus
You’re too nice
When trying to succeed in any area of your life,
You’ll soon realize
It’s all a competition.
Your goal doesn’t care if you’re nice or not.
When you win someone else loses
That’s just how it works.
So it sounds backwards,
but you can’t care for everyone else and their results
Because it’s hard enough making it yourself.
When you're constantly worrying about how your actions will affect other people
It’s just going to delay you from achieving.
But it’s not to say you shouldn't be ethical
No
There’s a difference between being selfishly focused and just being a bad person…

Being Selfishly Focused is
Saying No to going out with friends
No to birthdays
No to dinners
Because you’ve got work to do
There’s nothing for you to be celebrating
YET
Because soon you’ll be able to celebrate achieving greatness.
But until then
Yes
You’ve got to be selfish
With school and life in general
They have made this seem bad.
You’re always told to care for others and be nice which is correct,
But it has its time and place.
When it comes to competition and chasing your goals you can’t do any of that.
You’ve got to focus on yourself and be ruthless.
Be crazy focused on achieving,
Then achieving your goal will be under your control.
Because
Sooner or later you’ll figure out no one cares about YOUR results,
Only they want to win.
So I’m telling you this now.
So you can stop caring about others and start putting all your focus and effort on your own results.
Remember it’s ok to do things for yourself.
Nothing in this world is free, you get it through
Hard Work,
Determination,
Consistency,
And
Being Selfishly Focused.
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